A young American has lived across from me for the past year with
a beautiful Thai ladyboy. Since they are both sociable and
friendly they introduced themselves right away. We sometimes
get together over my house and share a few drinks. He seems
like an easy-going guy. She is very chatty and usually happy.
I was surprised to find out that she doesn’t drink, smoke or
take any drugs which is a good start for having a Thai woman
or ladyboy.
The problem with her is that she is completely nuts. There is
not one week that passes by that there is not an argument
between the two and its usually her voice you can hear
screaming. She throws things, windows get broken and then
there are tears and drama in the street.
The funny part is she packs up her stuff and declares she is
leaving for good. A big show is made of this. She comes to
say goodbye to us because she is never going to see us
again. She calls her ladyboy friends for a ride and then
stands outside her house shouting to her boyfriend that she
is leaving for good.
He quietly stays inside and ignores the whole charade.
The funny thing is we all know she isn't leaving. She
will most likely be back the same day. If not, she will
return the next day with a smile on her face. In fact, this
pretense of leaving has become so shallow that instead of
taking her packed bags, she now makes a habit of hiding them
in our house so she doesn't have the hassle of carrying them.
What are the arguments about? Some of them are the usual
accusation that he is playing around with other ladyboys.
Often, it is that he has spent money on something she thinks
is wasteful. But it is HIS money! He pays her a generous
allowance. When Thai ladyboys do this routine of trying to
stop their farang boyfriends spending their money, it is not
because they want to save him money. There is a simpler motive.
The more the boyfriend spends, the less there is leftover for
her to squeeze out of him.
This worthless ladyboy has already told my wife she has
three other farang boyfriends. This is one of the things us
westerners just don't get. It is not only that they play
these games and deceive their boyfriends. They think it is
something to boast about and if they can boast about it right
under their boyfriend's nose, all the better. Why she thought
my wife wouldn't tell me, I don't know. She probably assumes
all Thai women deceive their farang partners and that my wife
would be impressed at her cunning.
I wouldn't get involved in other people's relationships so
I will not be telling this guy about the other boyfriends.
Anyway, I don't think he is such a fool. He will be going
back to America soon and I doubt he will keep the relationship
going with this ladyboy. I am sure when he will return he
will be looking for someone else to be with.
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